The ABA Journal asked readers this question…now The Paralegal Mentor is curious how YOU would answer? What is the best piece of advice you’ve ever received? And how has it stuck with you throughout your life and career? There was tremendous response from paralegals across the US. Here’s what they had to say:
- Always sign originals in blue ink… from a supervising attorney during my summer internship. He is now a district court judge.
- If on a new or altered task, always ask “why” this is being done so you understand what it is you are actually doing, and what you are trying to accomplish.
- Do not argue with Clerks of Courts. Even if you are right, you will never win.
- Listen first, then ask meaningful questions.
- No matter how bad it is, always tell the truth.
- Always take notes when you are being taught something new. I can’t stress this enough. I still do it 36 years later.
- If you can’t say anything nice, don’t say anything at all. Discourages gossip, encourages kindness, and eliminates “foot in mouth” syndrome.
- It all pays the same so do your best whether it is drafting a brief or making coffee.
- Document, document, document … you never know when that obscure little conversation may be pivotal to a case!
- Never be afraid to ask a question, no one knows everything.
- Take lots of notes and read the text, too. Sometimes they throw in a question they haven’t discussed in class. Document what you believe by reading original texts. Don’t rely on any persons opinion. Form your own.
- It’s not advice, but a quote. “Be the hardest worker in the room.” – the Rock.
- Be the best you can be–life is too short to just be ordinary.
- You can’t control what others do or say. You can control your reaction to it.
- From my aunt, “In business, one of the most important choices you’ll make is the people with whom you choose to align yourself.” So absolutely true. Was then. Is now.
- Others’ failure to plan does not create an emergency for me!
- I was told to never work for an attorney who doesn’t love what he is doing. Best advice ever.
- First attorney I worked for, and believe me I was green, said: “I don’t care how you do things, just be consistent.” Best advice ever.
- Repeat instructions and assignments to attorneys to clarify directions and don’t hesitate to ask questions.
- Never hesitate to ask questions!
- Never (to the millionth power) give an original document to an attorney. The attorneys will 1. spill something on it; 2. lose it; or 3. write on it.
What is the best advice you’ve ever received? I’d love it if you shared that in the comments below.